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|  Collaborative Divorce Divorce Mediation Marital Mediation Divorce Coaching Non-Family Conflict Resolution Serving Fairfield and New Haven Connecticut Counties since 1983 DIVORCE IS NOT A WALK IN THE PARK, BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE AN ENDLESS NIGHTMARE EITHER. "There's a trick to the Graceful Exit. It begins with the vision to recognize when a job, a life stage, a relationship is over - and to let go. It means leaving what's over without denying its value." - Ellen Goodman What choices do you have to either end your marriage or relationship or restore it to life? Click any of the links below to learn how you can make the right decision for you, your spouse, your significant other and for those you both love. Click the Links Below For COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE MEDIATION For more information, call Attorney Harold Brienes at 203-373-1381 A Message from Collaborative Divorce Attorney and Mediator Harold Brienes I have been privileged for 27-years, to help hundreds of Connecticut men and women cope with the crisis of divorce and separation. Every one of my clients wants his or her marriage to end with dignity and mutual respect. In the early days of my career, that was often an unfulfilled hope. In those days, divorcing couples had very little choice other than to hire lawyers to fight it out in court. And, as we all know, divorce too often became mortal combat. The law calls it litigation. I call it war. When each spouse feels impelled to hire the biggest junkyard dog in town to attack the other spouse, what better description is there than war? It was painful to see good people surrender their autonomy to litigating lawyers, whose goal was to grab as many of the goodies from the other lawyer’s client as possible. And, as expensive as divorce was, the cost was more than in money. It was in surrendering control of your life to your lawyer and the court system; In the loss of whatever was good in your relationship; In the inevitable choosing-up of sides, the bitterness of broken friendships; In the painful shattering of once-close family bonds. And, most heartbreaking, in the damage inflicted by an uncaring system on your ability to effectively co-parent your children. There are better ways, and thousands of people like you are choosing them: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation and Collaborative Divorce. You can compare mediation and collaborative divorce to litigation by pressing this link: "Compare Divorce Options" The goals of Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation and Collaborative Divorce, are to redefine, not destroy the family. They strive to foster a cooperative spirit to problem solving that has among its goals an appreciation that money, while essential, is not the only medium of exchange. That preserving cherished relationships that have grown out of the marriage, finding peace of mind and moving confidently into one’s future life also have honored places at the bargaining table. GOING TO COURT WON’T SOLVE YOUR FAMILY PROBLEMSBy Harold Brienes, Collaborative Attorney & Mediator Collaborative Attorney & Mediator, Harold Brienes, serves families in all of Fairfield County, Connecticut, including Bridgeport, Trumbull, Monroe, Newtown, Fairfield, Westport, Norwalk, Weston, Wilton, Stamford, Ridgefield, Redding and Greenwich. He also welcomes clients from the New Haven County towns of Milford, Orange, East Haven, West Haven and New Haven. | |
| | | LEGAL DISCLAIMER: The information on this website is meant for public education only. It is not intended to be relied on as legal advice for any particular circumstance. If you need legal advice and counsel on any matter, consult an attorney. You may contact me by e-mail at brielaw@snet.net. . | |
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